TOP 30 of 60 TIPS For Improving Relationships:
How Many Check Marks would Your Relationship Receive out of this List?
Do you:
- Listen more closely
- Go out of your way to do something nice for the other person on a regular basis
- Recognize that everyone has hardships that they're dealing with
- Know yourself - you can't make others happy if you're not happy
- Know what makes you really happy - and make sure that it really does
- Diversify your surprises - not the usual same old, same old!! If your usual is sending a card then send flowers, candy, or a book...
- Ask your partner how their day is/was - and TRULY LISTEN to what they say
- Try something new and are you willing?
- Do something you don't want to do & you're willing?
- Take an interest in their interests
- Smile more often
- Laugh more often
- Do something nice for someone not waiting for a special occasions
- Live in the moment - be aware of what is really going on in your relationship.
- Ask - what their greatest accomplishment in life is?
- Ask - if there is anything that they would like to try or do, but haven't done yet?
- Ask - what the biggest source of pain or discomfort in life is?
The hardest thing in life is to walk a mile in someone elses shoes - but it is also the most worthwhile. Try it. - NOT complain - NO ONE wants to hear YOU!
- Do what you say you and say what you do!
- Arrive always on time, all the time
- Live below your means: money is a crappy thing to argue about. You can always replace money, but replacing love/loyalty/trust are a much harder.
- Find out what is important to them and celebrate it
- Never, ever LIE.
- Show up late? It says: "I didn't care enough to plan to be on time"
- Define your relationship by other things (kids, possessions, objects)
- If you're mad at someone, figure out if it is something they did, or if it is something inside you that is causing your anger from previous conditioning.
- Tell them clearly what you expect from them - and don't get upset if they aren't meeting your expectations if you haven't clearly communicated them
- Make sure that your expectations are realistic. Truly realistic.
- Find out what they expect from you?
- Do for them everything you ask of them ***
- ...Until NEXT Issue...
Be honest with yourself and select 1-3 items from list above that you know will improve your relationship significantly and commit to doing these items for your partner beginning today.
Nada Adams is a Business Intuitive who brings razor sharp Clarity to empower clients in Maximizing Success & Fulfilling Goals with Peace and Balance.
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