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Q: How to Avoid Controlling Relationships?!?

What Are Signs of a Controlling Relationship?

A controlling relationship does not just happen to you...on the contrary, anyone who's been involved in a controlling relationship will tell you they experienced early warning signs in the relationship that they either ignored, or worse, felt flattered by them. (yikes!)

Some signs of a controlling relationship may be initially subtle and even feel flattering early on. But as the relationship intensifies, the controlling behaviour becomes more apparently disturbing and less flattering to say the least.

Examples of Controlling Behavior:

• Asking who you were speaking with on the telephone
• “Unexpectedly” showing up
• Asking you to wear particular clothing or to behave in a particular way

These are all early signs of a controlling relationship.

The problem, of course, is that your new boyfriend/girlfriend may genuinely want to surprise you, or love to see you in a red dress or blazer and have no hidden agenda.

So, how do you determine if your relationship is headed out of your control?Controlling relationships have a clear division of power. If you wanted to express to your partner that they are behaving too controlling, how would they respond or react?

a) A non-controlling person - would likely respond with 'surprise or maybe hurt feelings'

b) A controlling person - would become defensive, making the partner feel bad for bringing up the subject so that they would apologize for thinking anything was wrong.

This is a clear warning sign of being in a controlling relationship. Why? Because the controlling partner is laying down the groundwork for the partner NOT to complain in the future by causing them too much grief and upset.

If you know what to look for in a healthy relationship,
it is easy to recognize a controlling person.

How do you avoid entering into a relationship with someone who is controlling? By taking things ssss l o w!

• Controlling relationships frequently develop rapidly.
• If the relationship seems to be developing too quickly, slow it down!
• Step back from the relationship and carefully consider how your partner is behaving.
• A controlling partner will be offended at your reservations, and instead of stepping back to give you space, they will step forward, trying to push the relationship forward even as you withdraw.

What to do if you find yourself in a controlling relationship?

• Often very controlling relationships are quite unhealthy and emotionally strenuous/draining. If you feel comfortable ending this type of relationship, do so.
• If, however, your safety is a concern, consider speaking with an officer, counsellor or family member or friend.
• Once you make the break, it's advisable NOT to agree to meet, “just 1 more time” and take any personal belongings you need to return or exchange...consider only meeting in a public place.

If you choose to stay with your controlling partner, you must ->

• 1st take 100% accountability for your happiness in the relationship.
• 2nd, face your fear of confrontation and finally stand up for yourself.
• 3rd, confront your partner that you are aware of their controlling tactics and that behavior is not acceptable for you.
• 4th, share what you desire in a healthy loving non-controlling partner and as I mentioned in a previous issue,
• 5th, be willing to have your partner be angry with you temporarily.

This will teach your partner that controlling behavior will not receive the typical payoff they were accustomed to having - your submissiveness. Only with balance can you have a healthy relationship that nurtures trust and integrity.

For further assistance, consider having couples counselling or coaching to overcome your unhealthy relationship habits.

Sincerely,
Nada

Nada Adams is a Business Intuitive who brings razor sharp Clarity to empower clients in Maximizing Success & Fulfilling Goals with Peace and Balance.

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PLEASE VOTE: Please SELECT your Favorite LOGO!!

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1) Please CHOOSE your favorite logo and make note of its corresponding number.

2) Go back to the blog and at the top right hand corner with gray background there is an area for you to vote for your favorite logo.

3) Ps. #3 logo the 'r' can be made like #2.

I need to make a final decision by Monday morning November 17th for the winning logo.

Please make your choice ASAP because what you like matters to me.

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Your Inspiration: Elephant Artist VIDEO!!

This is TRULY AMAZING and Remarkable!

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Your Health: FR.EE ~ Dental Health & Organ Chart

We've all heard of Pharaohs and Queens in the past dying at young ages from tooth/teeth infection(s).

Have you ever wondered why?

I discovered a chart that links every tooth in your mouth to every major organ in your body. That means if you develop or have a tooth ailment/infection/etc that infection will be passed onto the corresponding organ...amazing!!

Check out this chart (it's free - other places online charge $15 for it) and see for yourself. It's very fascinating!


NOTE: I also found out that mercury filings, that have been commonly used for decades, actually have 56% mercury in them. Some Doctors claim they are safe, while other Doctors say, that 'no amount or levels of mercury are ever safe' since they are continuously releasing fumes into the body.

If you're interested and would like to sign the petition to stop the use of Mercury in fillings, here is the PETITION to view.

Until next time...don't you have even more reason and motivation now to floss your teeth?

Your Coach,
Nada





Nada Adams is a Business Intuitive who brings razor sharp Clarity to empower clients in Maximizing Success & Fulfilling Goals with Peace and Balance.

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Your Business: Hot Tips #6-#10 (Part 2 of 2) From Richard Branson

If you don’t already know who S. Richard Branson is, he’sballooned across the Atlantic; he’s signed the Sex Pistols, Janet Jackson, Boy George and all kinds of famous musicians; he has been knighted by the queen. His company Virgin is home to more than 350 companies, fromgyms, gambling houses and bridal boutiques to fleets of planes, trains andlimousines. He even owns his own island, Necker Island.Now, Richard Branson is moving onward and upward into spacetourism.

His company Virgin Galactic is slated to start carryingpassengers into the thermosphere in 2009, at a whopping $200,000 aticket, which is probably a good deal for space travel. Anyway, Branson also has a philanthropic streak. He’s pledged the next 10 years of profits from his transportation empire, an amount that’s expected to reach $3-billion, to the development of renewable alternatives to carbon fuels. His company has revenues of $25-billion a year. He has over 50,000 employees; he knows a lot of people, and knows a lot of stuff about running a business.

He offered the following 6 through 10 HOTTEST TIPS! (To view Tips #1-#5 - Checkout 'Your Business' Post dated November 1, 2008.)

6. You have to be a good delegator. You’ve got to try to find people who are better than yourself to delegate to. You’ve then got to stand back and give them a lot of freedom to make mistakes, as well as to make good things.

7. It’s important to realize that if working is 80 percent of your life, it should be fun. You can take certain aspects of business seriously, but once you’ve dealt with the safety issues the rest should be fun and can be fun.

8. As an entrepreneur, you’ve got to love a challenge and you’ve got to be willing to push the limits beyond what other people think is impossible. Never accept 'no' for an answer. A successful entrepreneur just loves to prove people wrong.


9. Get your brand on the map. Getting your brand or your company’s name out and about is absolutely critical, particularly if you’re a consumer-oriented brand. You have to be willing to use yourself, as well as your dollars you spend on advertising, to get your brand on the map. Often a good PR story is far more effective (and cheaper) than a full-page ad.

10. Have a “yes” mentality. You’re going to get so much more out of life if you just say yes at every opportunity.


Commit to applying at least one of these tips today in your business!


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Your Business: (Part 1) 5 of 10 Hottest Tips From Richard Branson!!

If you don’t already know who S. Richard Branson is, he’s
ballooned across the Atlantic; he’s signed the Sex Pistols, Janet Jackson, Boy George and all kinds of famous musicians; he has been knighted by the queen.


His company Virgin is home to more than 350 companies, from
gyms, gambling houses and bridal boutiques to fleets of planes, trains and
limousines. He even owns his own island, Necker Island.

Now, Richard Branson is moving onward and upward into space
tourism. His company Virgin Galactic is slated to start carrying
passengers into the thermosphere in 2009, at a whopping $200,000 a
ticket, which is probably a good deal for space travel.

Anyway, Branson also has a philanthropic streak. He’s pledged the
next 10 years of profits from his transportation empire, an amount that’s expected to reach $3-billion, to the development of renewable alternatives to carbon fuels.

His company has revenues of $25-billion a year. He has over 50,000 employees; he knows a lot of people, and knows a lot of stuff about running a business.


He offered the following 5 of 10 HOTTEST TIPS!

1. “Success is creating something that I can be proud of.” It is creating something that really makes a difference, that maybe shakes up whole industries and actually results in people’s lives never being quite the same again, and hopefully, for the better.
   


2. With wealth comes extreme responsibility. The problem with capitalism is that a few individuals become extremely wealthy. It's still the best model!
   


3. A Social Entrepreneur: Someone who uses their entrepreneurial skills to tackle social problems.
   
   (Branson spends 25% of his time on New Ventures; 25% on Marketing; 10% firefighting and 40% of his time tackling social issues)
   


4. Be extremely careful not to criticize people. Make sure you look for the best in people and lavish praise on people.
   
   (Branson has a genuine love for people! He remembers being praised by his parent at a very young age.)
   


5. The absolute key is being a good listener. Do something about the suggestions that your staff will tell you.
   
   (Branson suggested you take your staff out once a week to unwind. Listen carefully to what your staff tell you and make sure you have a notepad with you to take down all the suggestions. The key here is to take action on what was said the very next day.)
   

Hot TIPS #6-#10 Next Issue ~ November 15, 2008

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