Monday, September 29, 2008

Q: TOP 30 of 60 TIPS For Improving Relationships!

TOP 30 of 60 TIPS For Improving Relationships:

How Many Check Marks would Your Relationship Receive out of this List?

Do you:

  1. Listen more closely
  2. Go out of your way to do something nice for the other person on a regular basis
  3. Recognize that everyone has hardships that they're dealing with
  4. Know yourself - you can't make others happy if you're not happy
  5. Know what makes you really happy - and make sure that it really does
  6. Diversify your surprises - not the usual same old, same old!! If your usual is sending a card then send flowers, candy, or a book...
  7. Ask your partner how their day is/was - and TRULY LISTEN to what they say
  8. Try something new and are you willing?
  9. Do something you don't want to do & you're willing?
  10. Take an interest in their interests
  11. Smile more often
  12. Laugh more often
  13. Do something nice for someone not waiting for a special occasions
  14. Live in the moment - be aware of what is really going on in your relationship.
  15. Ask - what their greatest accomplishment in life is?
  16. Ask - if there is anything that they would like to try or do, but haven't done yet?
  17. Ask - what the biggest source of pain or discomfort in life is?
    The hardest thing in life is to walk a mile in someone elses shoes - but it is also the most worthwhile. Try it.
  18. NOT complain - NO ONE wants to hear YOU!
  19. Do what you say you and say what you do!
  20. Arrive always on time, all the time
  21. Live below your means: money is a crappy thing to argue about. You can always replace money, but replacing love/loyalty/trust are a much harder.
  22. Find out what is important to them and celebrate it
  23. Never, ever LIE.
  24. Show up late? It says: "I didn't care enough to plan to be on time"
  25. Define your relationship by other things (kids, possessions, objects)
  26. If you're mad at someone, figure out if it is something they did, or if it is something inside you that is causing your anger from previous conditioning.
  27. Tell them clearly what you expect from them - and don't get upset if they aren't meeting your expectations if you haven't clearly communicated them
  28. Make sure that your expectations are realistic. Truly realistic.
  29. Find out what they expect from you?
  30. Do for them everything you ask of them ***
  31. ...Until NEXT Issue...

Be honest with yourself and select 1-3 items from list above that you know will improve your relationship significantly and commit to doing these items for your partner beginning today.

Nada Adams is a Business Intuitive who brings razor sharp Clarity to empower clients in Maximizing Success & Fulfilling Goals with Peace and Balance.

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