Friday, May 30, 2008

Your Inspiration: Understanding ~ "Lust, Love & Antidepressants"

Examining -> Lust, Romantic Love & Attachment...

A Scientific Approach to understanding one of the great wonders of life ~ LOVE and..!
If you're in a relationship or want to be - preview this video and discover a deeper understanding on this sought after subject.





Nada Adams is a Business Intuitive who brings razor sharp Clarity to empower clients in Maximizing Success & Fulfilling Goals with Peace and Balance.
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Saturday, May 24, 2008

Your Inspiration: Tony Robbins ~ "Decision Shapes Destiny!"

Tony says, "Decision Shapes Destiny!
Your Past DOES NOT EQUAL Your Future"
(unless you choose to live that way)

These are the THREE decisions we are making every moment of our lives:

1) What are you going to do?
  • Focus = Feeling
  • Past/Present/Future
  • Self or other?

2) What are you going ot focus on?

  • Is this the end of the beginning...
  • Are you being punished or rewarded?

3) What does it mean?

  • Will you give up or move forward

There are 2 things that shape you...watch the video to find out - what they are.



About the Author:

Nada Adams is a Business Intuitive who brings razor sharp Clarity to empower clients in Maximizing Success & Fulfilling Goals with Peace and Balance.

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*And Experience Time & Financial Freedom

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Friday, May 23, 2008

Q#3 - What Are STRESSORS? (Series)

3. What are Stressors?

The issues or factors that create stress are called stressors.

  1. Stressors are the situations, circumstances and other stimuli that are perceived to be a threat.
  2. Stress is often associated with situations that you find difficult to handle.
  3. How you view things also affects your stress level.
    If you have very high expectations, chances are that you will experience more than your fair share of stress.

This includes:

Personality Stressors ~ Self-perception:

  • Need for control
  • Anxious reactivity
  • Time urgency
  • Personality traits
  • Negativity
  • Over-analyzing nature
  • Anger, hostility

Psychosocial Stressors ~ Financial insecurity:

  • Life changes
  • Technological advances
  • Overload
  • Frustration
  • Deprivation
  • Trauma, loss

External Stressors ~ Occupation:

  • Noise
  • Nutrition
  • Drugs,
  • Substance
  • Environment
  • Life events over which you have no control

Stressors can also be classified as short-term (acute) or long-term (chronic).

Acute Stress - Acute stress is the reaction to an immediate threat, more popularly known as the fight or flight response. The stress can be due to any situation that is experienced, even subconsciously or falsely, as a danger.

Common acute stressors include:

  • Noise
  • Crowding
  • Isolation
  • Hunger
  • Danger
  • Infection
  • Imagining a threat or remembering a dangerous event

Normally, once the acute threat has passed, the response system gets inactivated and the level of stress hormones returns to normal. This condition is known as the “relaxation response”.

Chronic StressChronic stress is something which is not short lived. A person with chronic stress experiences it every day on an on-going basis. The stress gets aggravated when an individual tries to suppress it.


Common chronic stressors include:

  • Ongoing highly pressured work
  • Long-term relationship problems
  • Loneliness
  • Persistent financial worries
Next week: "How to Recognize Stress?"



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Sunday, May 18, 2008

Your Biz: Quadruple Your Income - Throw Away Your Oars ~ No More Excuses!


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  1. This opportunity is great for any non-profit organization looking to raise money by Donations or Auctions.
    (You can easily make a fortune for your organization.)
  2. You may want to contact furniture stores and triangulate a deal between GlobeTraders and the Purchaser - By adding an additional $500-$1000 USD and make that your commission.
  3. Or you may want to start your own Ebay or Craigslist small business and sell each piece one by one.
  4. Start your own furniture store.

GlobeTraders is committed to providing you with on-going opportunities for other liquidated products too. The choice is yours!

An opportunity like this, doesn't come to often and to everyone especially at Liquidation Pricing (most only get wholesale pricing).

I encourage you to make great use of this opportunity because I want you to make serious money. See...notice now great opportunities are coming to you!!

Remember, your mind will support you with 'ways', if you ask yourself the right questions?

  • 'I don't have or I don't know. . .' is not the right way to attract opportunity.
  • 'How can I make this work?' or 'Who might need/want this product?' Now you're talking business. . .

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Contact
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Your Success is My Business!

About the Author:

Nada Adams is a Business Intuitive
who brings razor sharp Clarity to empower clients in Maximizing Success & Fulfilling Goals with Peace and Balance.

If you're ready to hear the REAL truth of what's holding you back and eager to TAKE SERIOUS ACTION, then you're READY to work with Nada.

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*And Experience Time & Financial Freedom

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Q#2 - Different TYPES of STRESS?

There are five main types of stress that people experience.

  1. Eustress
  2. Distress
  3. Hyperstress
  4. Hypostress
  5. Neustress

1) Eustress
Eustress is a kind of short-term stress that provides immediate strength. Eustress can be defined as a pleasant or curative stress. We can't always avoid stress. There are certain times when we do not want to avoid stress because controlled stress gives us that competitive edge in performance related activities like athletics, giving a speech, or acting, etc.

Eustress arises at points of increased physical activity, enthusiasm, and creativity. Eustress is a positive stress that arises when motivation and inspiration are needed. A gymnast experiences eustress before a competition.

Eustress is a controlled stress that helps give you that extra push that you may need to get the job done, or do your best. Just like you hear some people say they work best under pressure, they are talking about eustress. Eustress can help you focus and concentrate better on the task at hand, giving you that competitive edge, that extra driving force. It can add that measure of motivation to an otherwise dry existence.

The Stress Curve diagram illustrates the concept that, for any performance-related activity, there is an optimal amount of stress. If you are involved in an oral interview for a job, you will benefit from a certain amount of stress. It is stress that provides you with focus and gives you your "competitive edge" that will help you think quickly and clearly and express your thought in ways that will benefit your interview process. Optimum Stress

<--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------->
No Stress ........Optimum (Eustress) Stress........Maximum Stress

Examples of Eustress
1. Graduating from college
2. Getting married
3. Receiving a promotion
4. Changing jobs for better prospects
5. Winning competition
6. Buying a new home

Such examples of eustress contribute to individual excellence. The benefits of optimal stress, if handled properly, include opportunity for increased growth and maturity, independence and control.

2) Distress
Distress is a negative stress brought about by constant re-adjustments or alterations in a routine. Distress creates feelings of discomfort and unfamiliarity.


There are two types of distress.
  1. Acute stress is an intense stress that arrives and disappears quickly.
  2. Chronic stress is a prolonged stress that exists for weeks, months, or even years.
    Someone who is constantly relocating or changing jobs may experience distress.

Examples of distress:

  • Chronic Pain
  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Lack of meaningful friendship
  • Cramming for exams
  • Having too much to do at work
  • Troubled relationships
  • Expressed hopelessness, anxiety or grief, etc.

Basically, distress is your body’s way of responding to what it views as a tragic or upsetting event in your life. It can affect both your physical and your mental health, especially for chronic sufferers.

Distress can interfere with your concentration; can lead to excessive absences from school and work, and can often make sufferers become very hard to get along with, even for friends and family members.

3) Hyperstress

Hyperstress is an excessive amount of stress. It occurs when an individual is pushed beyond what he or she can handle. Hyperstress results from being overloaded or overworked. When someone is hyperstressed, even little things can trigger a strong emotional response. A Wall Street trader is likely to experience hyperstress.

The most common sufferers of hyperstress are those who are overloaded trying to juggle children, careers, marriages, so much so, that one more little incidence could very easily push them over the edge. Mothers are often victims of hyperstress, as they may work and care for the home, husband, and children, or they may stay at home, plus juggle marriage and the demands of motherhood.

4) Hypostress
Hypostress is the opposite of hyperstress. Hypostress occurs when an individual is bored or unchallenged. People who experience hypostress are often restless and uninspired. A factory worker who performs repetitive tasks might experience hypostress. Hypostress happens when you suffer from extreme boredom, or when you have nothing in your life that stimulates you anymore. If you go to work everyday at the same time, same place, and perform the same repetitive work, then you are likely to suffer from hypostress. When you lack stimulation or have an unchallenging job or if you are over satisfied with your job, you might be suffering from hypostress.


5) Neustress
Neustress is neutral stress, neither good nor bad.
Neustress describes sensory stimuli that have no consequential effect, neither good nor bad. This kind of stress arises when a tornado hits an unoccupied island. It is a kind of stress which has no significant consequence. Also, from the scientific point of view, it has no real meaning.


Next week Q: "What are Stressors?"

About the AuthorA highly acclaimed academician and an active member in various professional bodies, Rajkumar Adukia has been working tirelessly for the cause of the profession. He is a member of the Professional accountants in Business Committee (PAIB) of International Federation of Accountants (IFAC) and the Central Council of the ICAI. He has conducted about 5000 seminars & workshops and regularly contributes articles to newspapers and magazines. He has written books on vast range of topics including Internal Audit, Bank audit, SEZ, CARO, Real Estate, Anti dumping, PMLA and Arbitration Laws. http://www.carajkumarradukia.com


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Saturday, May 17, 2008

Your Inspiration: Steve Jobs (CEO - Apple & Pixar Animation)

"....It was impossible to connect the dots moving forward when I was in College; But it was very very clear looking backwards 10 years later.

You have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something - your gut, destiny etc...because believing that the dots will connect down the road will give you the confidence to follow your heart even if it leads you off the well worn path and that will make all the difference..."

Enjoy! His Life Story 'Failure/Successes' Touched My Heart!





About the Author:

Nada Adams is a Business Intuitive who brings razor sharp Clarity to empower clients in Maximizing Success & Fulfilling Goals with Peace and Balance.

If you're ready to hear the REAL truth of what's holding you back and eager to TAKE SERIOUS ACTION, then you're READY to work with Nada.

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Saturday, May 10, 2008

Your Inspiration: Happy Mother's Day!

Happy Mother's Day my SPECIAL Mom!

You deserve to be honored, appreciated and loved every day of the year.

My heart is filled with tremendous gratitude knowing that your help has been huge in my life.

From the depth of my heart, I thank you for your support, encouragement and belief in me.

You will always be my DEAREST mom and BEST Friend!

~ I love you! Be safe.

Here's my dedication to all the women in my life (present & past) - mom, grandmothers, sisters, cousins, aunts, friends and of course my lovely clients!!

Wishing you plenty of LOVE & PEACE!




You'll be in my heart! Always and always...






About the Author:

Nada Adams is a Business Intuitive who brings razor sharp Clarity to empower clients in Maximizing Success & Fulfilling Goals with Peace and Balance. If you're ready to hear the REAL truth of what's holding you back and eager to TAKE SERIOUS ACTION, then you're READY to work with Nada.

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Your Business: FREE eBook Download ~ 'The Irresistable Offer'


You've probably heard of his book "The Irresistible Offer" - it's what some call "one of the top 5 marketing books ever written"and has been one of the best-selling marketing books of the last3 years week after week.

Some book marketers believe that if they give away an electronic version of their book they ultimately boost sales of their books. If that's true, all YOU published authors out there, consider doing the same and see for yourself.

Are they right? Only time will tell...

There are many people who are in agreement with this model - saying over the last few years the relationship between giving away digital downloads and the increase in sales by print media has been closely linked.

I'll be watching this one closely and curiously of course.

In the meantime, grab your FREE copy by downloading "The Irresistible Offer" now while this opportunity is still available.

Dr. Joe Vitale said that the book is "the first breakthrough inover 50 years" and it seems the entire pantheon of marketing gurus are in agreement.

To your Success!

Nada


About the Author:

Nada Adams is a Business Intuitive who brings razor sharp Clarity to empower clients in Maximizing Success & Fulfilling Goals with Peace and Balance. If you're ready to hear the REAL truth of what's holding you back and eager to TAKE SERIOUS ACTION, then you're READY to work with Nada.

Sign up today at www.vipresultscoaching.com for your FREE access to "VIP Results” ~ a weekly ezine for business owners and entrepreneurs ready to:
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Saturday, May 3, 2008

Q#1 - What is STRESS?

"Nothing gives one person so much advantage over another as to remain always cool and unruffled under all circumstances." ~Thomas Jefferson

Stress has become such an inseparable part of our lives that most people often fail to realize that they have been living under stress. At one point or the other everybody suffers from stress.

Relationship demands, physical as well as mental health problems, pressure at workplaces, traffic snarls, meeting deadlines, growing-up tensions—all of these conditions and situations are convincing causes of stress. People have their own methods of stress management. In some people, stress-induced inimical feelings and distress tend to persist and intensify. Learning to understand and master stress management techniques can help prevent the adverse effects of this urban debility.

In the next few months you will receive the flollowing articles to help you reduce the Negative Stress in your day to day life:
  1. What is stress?
  2. Different types of stress
  3. What are Stressors?
  4. How to recognize stress?
  5. Checklist for determining your vulnerability to stress?
  6. What are stressful situations?
  7. What happens when you are stressed out?
  8. Can stress be eliminated from your life?
  9. Some stress management techniques
  10. When should you seek professional help for your stress?

1. What is stress?

STRESS can be defined as a form of tension or strain in the body or the mind for which there is no release or outlet. When under stress, one is like a car in the neutral gear with the accelerator on, trying to exert initially, but unable to do so .

Stress is also defined as mental, physical, emotional tension, strain or distress. Stress is a fact of life. However too much stress can result in the breakdown of a person’s physical, mental and emotional health. It has physical and emotional effects on us and can create positive or negative energy.

But not all stress is bad. Stress can have positive effects too. In fact, stress is a very natural and important part of life. Human body is designed to react to two types of stress.

Good stress helps keep us alert, motivates us to face challenges, and drives us to solve problems. These low levels of stress are manageable and can be thought of as necessary and normal stimulation.

However, Distress, on the other hand, results when our bodies overreact to events.

Next week - #2 "Different types of stress"


About the Author

A highly acclaimed academician and an active member in various professional bodies, Rajkumar Adukia has been working tirelessly for the cause of the profession. He is a member of the Professional accountants in Business Committee (PAIB) of International Federation of Accountants (IFAC) and the Central Council of the ICAI. He has conducted about 5000 seminars & workshops and regularly contributes articles to newspapers and magazines. He has written books on vast range of topics including Internal Audit, Bank audit, SEZ, CARO, Real Estate, Anti dumping, PMLA and Arbitration Laws.
http://www.carajkumarradukia.com


Friday, May 2, 2008

Your Inspiration: Forgiveness & the Freedom of Letting Go....!

Dare to FORGIVE....











About the Author:
Nada Adams is a Business Intuitive who brings razor sharp Clarity to empower clients in Maximizing Success & Fulfilling Goals with Peace and Balance.If you're ready to hear the REAL truth of what's holding you back and eager to TAKE SERIOUS ACTION, then you're READY to work with Nada.

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Sunday, April 27, 2008

Opportunity: Have you heard of "Books Mean Credibility"?

I came across this coaching program that you or someone you know maybe ready for.

Have you heard of - Glenn's "Books Mean Credibility" live workshop with Ken McArthur as the case study?

In case you haven't heard, you have a rare opportunity to experience Glenn's in-depth coaching program (which normally costs over $10,000)... only for a $1 (yes, one dollar)

If you have ever wished you could enjoy the same coaching that normally can only be afforded by highly successful people ...You now have that opportunity to give it a try.

You can experience first-hand what many are calling "the most effectiveBusiness and Book-writing Strategies Coaching in the world". Check it out to get access to this coaching program while it is still available to try for only $1.00

If it's not for you, at least you have kept your wallet in tact and only spent a buck.

To your Success!

Regards,
Nada Adams

About the Author:

Nada Adams is a Business Intuitive who brings razor sharp Clarity to support her clients in Maximizing their Success and Fulfilling their goals while Living in Peace and Balance. If you're ready to hear the REAL truth of what's holding you back and ready to take the necessary action, then you are ready to work with Nada.

Sign up today at www.vipresultscoaching.com for the "VIP Results” ~ a weekly ezine for business owners and entrepreneurs ready to:

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Q: Boundaries Part 5 - "Timing is Everything"

"We don't deal much with facts when we are
contemplating ourselves." ~ Mark Twain

Setting boundaries requires that you pick the BEST TIME to meet with your team, colleagues, employer, employee, spouse, family member or children.

Mentally plan a win/win outcome before you even start your communication. Consider what the other person would consider a win for him/her and how they will benefit too by you setting better boundaries with them.

Starting such a dialogue can feel very awkward and uncomfortable especially if you're concerned about the other person's response. ie. anger.

To ensure you have a healthy adult to adult communication, make sure you avoid words that express blame. ie., its your fault or you never listen.

11 Steps - To Effective Expression of Feelings:
  1. On your own, connect with your heart and the importance of that person to you.
  2. Begin your dialogue with sincerity, connecting from your heart and consciously desiring a win/win outcome and not a win/lose.
  3. Notice your tone of voice as you speak ensuring it is gentle and calm.
  4. Make sincere loving eye contact.
  5. DEFINE what you want from the listener. "I only need you to hear me right now and not try to find a solution."
  6. Speak about yourself and how you're feeling and avoid using 'you' words as much as possible. "I want you to know how I'm feeling right now...I am upset or angry because..."
  7. Share the importance of your honesty and integrity with yourself. "I need to be honest with myself and with you because..."
  8. Take ownership for any given situation - that means putting the blame on you vs the other person. "I apologize that I have not shown much enthusiasm when you speak with me" vs. "you always ignore me when you walk into the room."
  9. Connect with what you ultimately want. "I want to love and be loved in my life again." vs. "You never listen to anything that matters to me"
  10. Learn to be comfortable with all your emotions. If you wish to live in balance - then you'll need to feel anger, sadness and plenty of those emotions most people pretend they don't have. Don't make them wrong! They are automatic responses. Give yourself permission to feel all of your emotions and express them in healthy ways instead of bottling them inside you and harming your health and relationship too. Losing your Self Respect, Self Confidence and Self Esteem is huge price tag!
  11. Be sincere and open about your discomfort with you're feelings. "What I'm about to share with you is uncomfortable for me and you may not initially like what I have to say, please simply hear me out..."

Keep in mind - if you are emotionally charged, you will be very ineffective in expressing and setting good boundaries. If you need to vent - do so by walking, exercise, punching a bag or screaming into a pillow to let out your steam, before you speak to anyone. Otherwise, you will not be able to have the calm and connection to express yourself effectively.

And oh you fellows, you might not have to say anything or solve her problems as she's expresses her frustrations. By simply listening without making any comments at all -that may be all she needs from you. So NO need to fret and try to help her find the solution...all she needs from you sometimes is "LISTENING" ~ now that was easy!

Your Coach,
Nada

About the Author:

Nada Adams is a Business Intuitive who brings razor sharp Clarity to support her clients in Maximizing their Success and Fulfilling their goals while Living in Peace and Balance. If you're ready to hear the REAL truth of what's holding you back and ready to take the necessary actions, then you are ready to work with Nada.

Sign up today at www.vipresultscoaching.com for the "VIP RE$ULTS” ~ a weekly ezine for business owners and entrepreneurs ready to:

*Cut through the Fog and Eliminate blocks
*Effortlessly make more money through Product Development
*And finally have Time & Financial Freedom they know are possible.

© Copyright 2008, Nada Adams and VIP R.E.$.U.L.T.S. Coaching Ltd. All rights reserved.

Saturday, April 26, 2008

Your Inspiration: "Don't Quit" Video

Inspirational POEM (Video)


...it is when things seem worst that you must NOT quit!...










Nada Adams is a Business Intuitive who brings razor sharp Clarity to support her clients in Maximizing their Success and Fulfilling their goals while Living in Peace and Balance. If you're ready to hear the REAL truth of what's holding you back, then you are ready to work with Nada.

Sign up today at www.vipresultscoaching.com for the "VIP Results” ~ a weekly ezine for business owners and entrepreneurs ready to:
  • Cut through the Fog and Eliminate blocks
  • Effortlessly make more money through Product Development
  • And finally have the Path to Freedom they know is possible.

Monday, April 21, 2008

Q: Setting Boundaries Part 4 - Saying 'NO'

'No' - a tiny word that packs quite the punch and is feared by most people...why? Because without learning how to say 'no' again, you will NOT achieve healthy boundaries.



Why do most of us resist using this tiny word? For the most part - we are avoiding the feelings of 'Guilt.'


Next time before you answer 'yes' - I suggest you ask yourself the following question: "Why am I saying 'yes' to this question?" Is it to genuinely help out, needing to look good or am I repeating my old patters that cause me stress?



By saying 'no' - all your past programming will surface - just notice what your mind and feelings start telling you:


  • How could you not be generous and say yes?

  • How selfish of you (Guilt)

  • Now what is that person thinking of you?

  • Now you can be more useful and important by doing this?

  • What to go for being rude and impolite

Here are 10 Tips for saying 'no':


  1. Make cue cards with your potential answers &
    Practice daily verbally saying your 'no' script

  2. Keep the cue card handy where you usually need to say 'no'.
    ie. beside your phone at work and at home.

  3. Take time to respond - eg. "Let me check my calendar first and get back to you."

  4. Make the answer of 'no' about you and not their cause or question. eg. "Thanks for your offer and I really need ot say 'no' for me."

  5. Create a policy statement (makes you sound official): If businesses do, why no you?
    eg. "We have a policy to only support children's charities and our portfolio for donations is full at the moment."

  6. Honor your priorities and put your foot down to what matters most to you. eg. "say 'no' to interruptions at dinner or having the work cell phone on after 7pm."

  7. Be Brief: No need to give a full detail explanation as to why you need to say no. Simply say 'no thank you' and continue being in your power by managing the voices inside your head by saying mentally, "No is my right to say and exercise."

  8. Build your 'no' muscle: Develop the habit of saying 'no' every day to smaler requests so that you get the necessary practice to grow your 'no' muscle to say 'no' to bigger requests. Remember buy time, if you're not strong enough yet.

  9. Use other mediums: If you don't have the strength at first to say 'no' verbally, say it using a different medium - ie. email, letter or voice/text message. Remember to keep this brief too.

  10. Manage your mind frick: when we exercise our right to say 'no', our minds may send us guilty messages from old habits. Simply reply mentally, 'Thank you for sharing. This is for the best. My rights are important and need honoring too."

If you practice all of these steps, you will experience a new level of self esteem and self confidence and people will respect you more - guaranteed! Even if they are disappointed by your answer of 'no' - you will still have their respect for speaking your truth!






Nada Adams, a Success-RESULTS Coach, Empowers Parent-Entrepreneurs to live Authentically with Integrity by using Powerful Intuitive Customized Solutions to create more balance, more well-being and more wealth! Experience NO-BS intuitive 1 on 1 coaching today! For a LIMITED time ~ schedule your initial complimentary coaching call today by visiting: www.vipresultscoaching.com & Sign up for the VIP Connection "Be Authentic; Be Enough" to jump start each and every week!

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Saturday, April 19, 2008

Your Inspiration: Overcoming Adversity - Incredibly Inspirational!!

Amazing Video - MUST SEE -
Overcoming Adversity - If he can do it ~ so can YOU!








Nada Adams, a Success-RESULTS Coach, Empowers Parent-Entrepreneurs to live Authentically with Integrity by using Powerful Intuitive Customized Solutions to create more balance, more well-being and more wealth! Experience NO-BS intuitive 1 on 1 coaching today! For a LIMITED time ~ schedule your initial complimentary coaching call today by visiting: www.vipresultscoaching.com & Sign up for the VIP Connection "Be Authentic; Be Enough" to jump start each and every week!

Monday, April 14, 2008

Are you listening? Intuition 101

Did you know that you're intuition is working 100% of the time?
Well, it is. . . but are you really listening?

Many coaching clients are looking for too many answers outside themselves. They attend seminar after seminar - looking for the pot of gold. Does this sound like you? Ther reason: they have been convinced by most marketers that the answers are outside of them. So they jump on board the ongoing wagon of courses one after the other.


Don't get me wrong, I'm a huge advocate of on going learning! What I'm saying here, is once you attend a training of any sort, go out and do something with it - take ACTION! Instead of jumping from one training to the next with no time for reflection and absorption - this will likely leave you feeling incomplete.

I've been asked many different coaching questions. . . and though I have lots of answers, I encourage each client to always answer their own question first. This builds trusting and empowers them to go within for their intuitive answer.

Why? Because your intuition is there for a reason and it's always working 100% of the time.

So I have a great question for you to ponder this week to practice listening to your intuition.
"What has to happen for me to consistently keep commitments to myself?"
  1. Spend 15 minutes every day this week contemplating this question in quiet/silence either in meditation or out in nature and listen for the answer.
  2. Trust yourself.
  3. Release your attachment of needing to know the answer right away. Your perfect answer might come in 15 minutes or 15 days, so pay attention and give yourself the space and quiet to hear the gentle low voice of intuition!

Warning: the answer might scare you (because it is something way outside your comfort zone) and that's ok.

Baby steps.

I invite you to post your intuitive answers on my blog and together let's help support one another to trust and grow our intuition!

Peacefully,
Nada


Nada Adams, a Success-RESULTS Coach, Empowers Parent-Entrepreneurs to live Authentically with Integrity by using Powerful Intuitive Customized Solutions to create more balance, more well-being and more wealth! Experience NO-BS intuitive 1 on 1 coaching today! For a LIMITED time ~ schedule your initial complimentary coaching call today by visiting: www.vipresultscoaching.com & Sign up for the VIP Connection "Be Authentic; Be Enough" to jump start each and every week!

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Sunday, April 13, 2008

Q: Boundaries Part 3 ~ Are you a Brick Wall or Willow Tree?

The quality of strength, lined with tenderness,
is an unbeatable combination." ~ Maya Angelou

Healthy boundaries are flexible boundaries like a Willow tree that bends in the wind; not rigid brick walls that keep every emotion - positive or negative out.

Brick walls keep you emotionally bottled up and prevent you from experience deep fulfilling love, meeting good people and experiencing many joyful aspects of life. Having said that, moderation is absolutely key!

SOME OF Boundaries MUST be rigid and non-negotiable without exception:
Example: it's never ok for others to lie, cheat or hit you when they're angry.

And other boundaries need to be flexible sometimes. Healthy boundaries need to develop gradually and with cooperation of your partner, colleagues, children etc. This is not a dictatorship!

Great boundaries are best described in the following 13 step example:
Someone who:

  • speaks openly and honestly with their feelings even if the listener(s) may be disappointed.
  • loves and respects themselves ~ by what thoughts they entertain to what food or snack they eat daily.
  • stays true to themselves even if they end up alone temporarily
  • is trusted/respected by others for living with integrity
  • knows their worth is in who they are and not what or how much they make or own.
  • knows who and what is important in their life and they act accordingly
  • is clearly grounded and operate from their values vs. people pleasing
  • has the strength to say 'no' easily to anyone or anything that conflicts with those values.
  • takes full responsibility for their choices & actions ~ positive or negative
  • is courageous to say "I don't know...or I need help"
  • allows and empowers others to take responsibility for themselves
  • understands loving others beyond the point of love leads to resentment and anger.
  • takes care of themself so that they are happier, healthier and more complete and whole in their relationship.
  • they are responsible to have their own needs met not their partner

Now that sounds easy, right? Ya right... The process is simple but not always easy to implement. If you start now, and commit to this process of change, it will become easier and easier for you to achieve a more content and balanced life.

Keep in mind, this process requires your commitment and patience with yourself. If you're willing to do the work, you will gradually teach everyone around you - how you wish to be treated. If you're going to be hard nosed about what you want and when you want it, this will be a very painful process.

the choice is always yours!

Your Coach,
Nada

Nada Adams, a Success-RESULTS Coach, Empowers Parent-Entrepreneurs to live Authentically with Integrity by using Powerful Intuitive Customized Solutions to create more balance, more well-being and more wealth! Experience NO-BS intuitive 1 on 1 coaching today! For a LIMITED time ~ schedule your initial complimentary coaching call today by visiting: www.vipresultscoaching.com & Sign up for the VIP Connection "Be Authentic; Be Enough" to jump start each and every week!

© Copyright 2008, Nada Adams and VIP R.E.$.U.L.T.S. Coaching Ltd. All rights reserved.

Saturday, April 12, 2008

Inspirational Video: Patrick Henry Hughes - Inspirational Story

Incredibly inspiring!







Nada Adams, a Success-RESULTS Coach, Empowers Parent-Entrepreneurs to live Authentically with Integrity by using Powerful Intuitive Customized Solutions to create more balance, more well-being and more wealth! Experience NO-BS intuitive coaching today! For a LIMITED time ~ schedule your initial complimentary coaching call today by visiting: www.vipresultscoaching.com & Sign up for the VIP Connection "Be Authentic; Be Enough" to jump start each and every week!

Your Business: Networking Mistake #5

5. Location, Location, Location

Where you choose to network really does matter! Choose different environments where you will meet more than just potential prospects for YOU. Networking is a process of connecting with different types of professionals. As a result, you will grow your list of contacts and potentially develop your million dollar rolodex too!

Look to develop contacts from the 3 categories below at Networking events, so that your business will grow and diversify with contacts that can potentially provide you with multiple streams of income.
  1. JV Partners - ranging of different non-compete businesses that share in the same Target Market
  2. Referral partners - perhaps sending potential clients to them, that are not a fit for you. This can also develop into a Joint Venture relationship too.
  3. Colleague/Peer relationships - you can collaborate and mastermind with this group on future larger projects and opportunities.

Q: At your next networking meeting, consciously focus on different category from your norm. Perhaps, you may consider seeking out a colleague in your industry instead of a prospect and have an open discussion what "collaborating" together might look like.

Nada Adams, a Success-RESULTS Coach, Empowers Parent-Entrepreneurs to live Authentically with Integrity by using Powerful Intuitive Customized Solutions to create more balance, more well-being and more wealth! Experience NO-BS intuitive 1 on 1 coaching today!
For a LIMITED time ~ schedule your initial complimentary coaching call today by visiting: www.vipresultscoaching.com & Sign up for the VIP Connection "Be Authentic; Be Enough" to jump start each and every week!

© Copyright 2008, Nada Adams and VIP R.E.$.U.L.T.S. Coaching Ltd. All rights reserved.

Monday, April 7, 2008

Q: How to set GOOD Boundaries - Part 2


"Get over the disease to please.
Understand you cannot please everyone.
Being able to disappoint others is crucial to reclaiming your life." ~ Oprah Winfrey
If only we were taught as young children to set good boundaries; instead we were taught to please others. . . hmm - at least we can teach our children now IF we lead by example.

Checkout the following of Old Limiting Beliefs and Your Truths:

O: I am responsible for everyone's happiness
T: Being overly responsible for others is actually manipulative and disabling.

O: I'm selfish & self centered to think about me all the time.
T: By thinking about me, I am taking care and protecting myself.

O: I'm not important.
T: I'm as important as my partner.

O: It's not safe to reveal my feelings if they disturb the other person.
T: My needs are just as important as the needs of others. I have the right share my feelings and stand up for what I need and want.

O: I'm always nice and ready to please whoever asks me for help.
T: By setting good boundaries, I am helping and teaching others to know how to treat me, so they'll know what I will and will not allow. I am taking care of myself and I'm the one responsible for my integrity and the health of all my relationships.

O: It's important what people think of me; always obey authority.
T: Others learn to trust me when I set good boundaries. My integrity is noticed and respected and that is much more important than being liked.

The need for constant approval from others will deprive you of your self-respect and self-esteem therefore, causing you to be in a lose/lose scenario.
If you've developed a habit to continually cave-in (becoming a door mat) with your children, spouse/partner or friends so they'll love you more, well...the opposite will actually occur.
In time, those loved ones will not love you more but rather STOP TRUSTING YOU and you'll complain of being filled with self-directed anger and resentment.
You can't give what you don't have. . . You are MORE VALUABLE to your loved ones, when you love yourself!

Assignment:
Q: Have you ever done something out of fear and old limiting beliefs, said 'yes' to someone when you really meant 'no' and then resented the whole thing?

What would happen, to the person you were dishonest with if they found out you were resentful helping them out?

Do your actions of being so called 'nice' increase or decrease the trust in this relationship?

If you answered YES to the initial question, imagine what a different positive outcome could have been had you spoken your truth keeping your integrity?

Nada Adams, a Success-RESULTS Coach, Empowers Parent-Entrepreneurs to live Authentically with Integrity by using Powerful Intuitive Customized Solutions to create more balance, more well-being and more wealth! Experience NO-BS intuitive coaching today!
For a LIMITED time ~ schedule your initial complimentary coaching call today by visiting: www.vipresultscoaching.com & Sign up for the VIP Connection "Be Authentic; Be Enough" to jump start each and every week!

© Copyright 2008, Nada Adams and VIP R.E.$.U.L.T.S. Coaching Ltd. All rights reserved.